Nonromance
Posted by CM under Romancery on Sun 26 Nov 2006
or an aspiring writer of romance, I have to admit that I have a streak of virulent practicality. One of the things I’m doing right now is figuring out what to engrave on a wedding ring.
So far as I can tell, wedding ring engravings are designed to make everyone else’s eyes roll. Either they’re too generic, e.g., “one love will bind us together.” Or they’re too personal, like “For my little flower of passion.” In any event, I get embarrassed just reading what other people have chosen. I can’t wear these! This completely explains Celtic love knots. No need for florid prose; just a symbol. I like symbols. Maybe I should choose one. We’d refer to ourselves in text as the “Couple Formerly Known as Unmarried.”
So Prince. I like it.
But the other option is to try and think of an engraving that actually isn’t cloyingly sweet or endearingly vomitous. I’m thinking about “Pass the salt.” What do y’all think?









November 26th, 2006 at 5:19 pm
I like one-word engravings. We used “always” in ours. Wouldn’t it have sucked if we’d gotten divorced, like, a month later?
November 26th, 2006 at 7:22 pm
How about, “Put me back on” ?
The longer version - “If you can read this, you’d better be pregnant or in surgery.”
You can probably tell ours aren’t engraved. What I’m doing writing romance, I have no idea.
Lynne’s one-word idea is good - so long as the word is not “precious.”

November 26th, 2006 at 11:31 pm
ROFLMAO over “put me back on”. I love it.
The nice thing about one-word messages is that they fit on the ring without the need for a microscope.
I won’t tell you what’s on mine. It’s vomitous. *g*
Alice
November 27th, 2006 at 1:31 am
You should check out Jeanine Payer - she’s a jewelry artist who does a lot of engraving w/ cool quotes. She also does custom work. For her husband’s wedding band, she engraved her fingerprint on the outside and a quote on the inside. Her work is really beautiful. http://www.jeaninepayer.com
A lot of her stuff is also at http://www.twistonline.com and http://www.givingtreejewelry.com
November 27th, 2006 at 7:12 am
Why not just his name on yours, and yours on his? No gagging sentiments, just the basics. Of course my husband lost his coaching baseball, but we’re still married.
November 27th, 2006 at 10:07 am
I’m fond of one word engravings or, as a friend did for her gift to us, just the wedding date. No gag reflex needed.
‘course, mine lost his doing gutter work in the rain. Also still married.
November 27th, 2006 at 1:31 pm
Er, people have their wedding rings engraved? I must’ve missed the memo…
November 27th, 2006 at 8:37 pm
Engraved? Heck, I never even got my set permanently hooked together. When I went to check on having that done, they wanted to keep the ring a week! What’s up with that? Once the rings were on, I figure that’s where they should stay. Besides, when I garden and do messy crafts with the boys, I just wear the wedding band and leave the diamond at home where it won’t get lost.
November 27th, 2006 at 8:38 pm
Engraved? Heck, I never even got my set permanently hooked together. When I went to check on having that done, they wanted to keep the ring a week! What’s up with that? Once the rings were on, I figure that’s where they should stay. Besides, when I garden and do messy crafts with the boys, I just wear the wedding band and leave the diamond at home where it won’t get lost.
Hey — there’s an idea, have it engraved with your address: if lost, return to —
Okay, just a thought. . . I’ll go back to my little hidey hole and write some more!
November 28th, 2006 at 7:26 pm
LOL at Tessa’s comment.
I have never had the fortunate blessing to be married, so I cannot offer any good suggestions of engravings. How about a circle with the date of the marriage, because a circle is neverending… man that sounds cheesy