D.H. Lawrence again
Posted by CM under Legalese on Tue 17 Apr 2007
‘m reading D.H. Lawrence again. He comes from around the same part of England as my hero, and I’m trying to capture a feel for rhythm once again. The problem is that Lawrence is — how shall I say this — not very romantic.
Take this poem:
Intimates
Don’t you care for my love? she said bitterly.
I handed her the mirror, and said:
Please address these questions to the proper person!
Please make all request to head-quarters!
In all matters of emotional importance
please approach the supreme authority direct!–
So I handed her the mirror.And she would have broken it over my head,
but she caught sight of her own reflection
and that held her spellbound for two seconds
while I fled.
Would you want that man to be your hero?









April 18th, 2007 at 7:26 am
No way.
Alice
April 18th, 2007 at 9:16 am
Truthfully?
It made me laugh out loud. That’s my kind of man. And I could always whip him into shape…
April 18th, 2007 at 9:58 am
The snark is definitely my kind of man. But I can’t help but think that he should have held onto that mirror for just a little longer….
April 18th, 2007 at 10:41 am
If he’s stupid enough to end up with her in the first place, he’s too stupid for me.
Alice
April 18th, 2007 at 11:45 am
I suspect he isn’t “ending up” with her. This sounds suspiciously like a break up. One can’t be faulted for dating idiots if one is smart enough to ditch them.
I hope.
Please?
April 18th, 2007 at 12:08 pm
I’d like him as my hero, but with a different heroine. Anyone who points out where I need to grow as a person is good for me. He could be a little gentler about it, obviously, but I like the idea.
April 18th, 2007 at 2:49 pm
Oh, I love him! A guy who encourages a woman to look within herself for validation instead of depending on her man to provide it? I’m all over that.
April 18th, 2007 at 9:30 pm
Oh, so honestly truthful. And I think you are right CM it does sound like a breakup.
April 18th, 2007 at 9:42 pm
Negatory!
April 22nd, 2007 at 7:09 am
LOL! This made me laugh, too. And romantic, hmm. if not for the tone, you could read it as romantic — sort of a plea to heal thyself.
I had a professor whose favorite was DHL, and read quite a bit back in the day. He had an odd point of view on women, in general.
This little bit reminds me a lot of the ultimate alpha male point of view — part disdain for women, part putting the on a pedestal and being disappointed when they fall.
But in the darker corners of my mind, I’m thinking he also had some very pretty pieces interspersed among the sharp wit.
Thanks for reminding me of him … I think I’m going to go read some.